Fate is believed to be mysterious and powerful force that shapes our lives and destinies. Some people believe that fate is predetermined and unchangeable, while the rest think that fate is influenced by our choices and actions.
But what if fate is not on your favor? What if fate means you to lose only, or to face hardships and challenges that seem unconquerable?
In such situation, you have two options: either to give up and accept your fate, or fight back and try to change it.
The latter option may seem more difficult and risky, but it is also more rewarding and fulfilling at the end. As William McFee, a British-American writer and engineer, once said: “If fate means you to lose, give him a good fight anyhow.”
According to him, we should not surrender or lose hope anyhow. Instead, we should muster up courage, strive to give a good fight and overcome the obstacles in order to achieve our goals.
Fighting fate not only needs courage and determination, but also a positive attitude and perspective. With it, comes the valuable lessons enabling us to grow as individuals and uncover new opportunities and possibilities.
But the question is how to fight fate and achieve predetermined goals? Here are 7 tips and strategies that can help you:
1. Set Realistic Goals and Vision
To set realistic goals and vision, it is important to have a clear idea of what and why you want it in life. With a well-defined goal, one can stay more focused, motivated, and inspired. Also it helps to plan, intervene and act effectively as well as measure progress and shortcomings of the programs and adjust plans and actions accordingly in between.
For a precise goal and vision, be specific about;
- What do you want to achieve in life?
- Importance of goal achievement for self and its benefits to society
- Some specific and measurable outcomes.
- Potential challenges and risks that that may come along the way
- How to overcome or mitigate their effects?
For this, write down your goals and vision, and review them regularly during the entire journey to your goal. This way, you stay oriented and actively involved in your purpose and direction.
2. Believe in Yourself and Your Abilities
Believing in yourself means having confidence and trust in your own skills, talents, abilities and potential. Along with maintaining a positive and realistic self-image, it is also important to avoid self-doubt or negative self-talk.
With believe in Yourself, comes the power to:
- Overcome fear and anxiety
- Take action and initiative
- Learn from your mistakes and failures
- Seek feedback and improvement
- Embrace challenges and opportunities
- Celebrate little achievements and successes on the way to bigger goals
Some of the things we can practice to have believe in yourself and abilities;
- Recognize and acknowledge your strengths and accomplishments
- Identify shortcomings and areas that needs improvement
- Seek support and guidance from expertise
- Surround yourself with positive and supportive people
- Stop comparing yourself with others
- Affirm yourself with positive and empowering statements-‘ Yes, I can do it!’
3. Be Flexible and Adaptable
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